Finding the balance, living life with hydrocephalus and brain injury, is tricky. Relationships take strain and fall apart. The loss of some relationships has been sad for me. But I’m realizing that this is inevitable unless the required effort is made by all parties. Truthfully, some have been easier...
Hydrocephalus
Cognitive Impairment: Advice For Dealing With This Life Changing Event
My top piece of advice in this instance, NEVER give up on yourself! I feel like I’ve been neglecting my website, that includes anyone who follows this blog. For that, I do apologise. Unfortunately, it’s not entirely within my control. Nevertheless, I also know it is far from the...
Hydrocephalus can feel like being on a journey without a destination
There’s no manual for surviving, or living with, hydrocephalus. The effects of the condition, and the consequences of treatment options, touch every aspect of a person’s life. Also, we all experience the condition differently. I still maintain, how YOU feel about YOUR own journey, is up to YOU. Don’t...
Positive self-talk is so much better!
Ever hear of negative self-talk? I’m sure most people have and are VERY familiar with it. I know I sure am. There’s NO shame in that! However, I have found that the opposite, (though it requires effort), is much more beneficial. For those of us diagnosed with hydrocephalus, be it...
It’s been a painful few days.
I’ve been dealing with a headache that won’t go away, lasting all day and night. Nausea, no vomiting. Lack of appetite. And, my shunt felt tight initially, pulling down the right side of my head. Thankfully that’s subsided. I tried to see if I could hear “Sophy” (my shunt)...
Hydrocephalus Awareness: What you need to know
What is it? Hydrocephalus is an incurable neurological condition that affects millions of people across the world. It does not discriminate. To date, the only treatment option available requires a person to undergo brain surgery (repeatedly), which is NOT a cure. The treatment options available CAN and DO fail,...
The unexplained is complicated, and neurosurgeons don’t always have the answer…
Let’s be honest: They are human too (despite some of them having a god-like complex). They can, and do, make mistakes but they also save lives. The difference: A surgeon who doesn’t make the effort, gives up because it’s too hard, or simply dismisses your concerns. VS A surgeon...
From IT professional to brain injury survivor
I have worked in IT for more than 20 years of my life. After starting my career as a secretary, I soon moved into IT and learnt as much as I could, on the job. It was a field I felt drawn to. Over the years, I have successfully...
The hard reality of living with a brain injury…
***TRIGGER WARNING: This post touches on suicidal thoughts and death*** When you sustain a brain injury, in the prime of your life, things change in an instant. It hits harder still if you’re a high functioning person, independent and always doing everything for everyone else. Nothing can prepare you...
Reclaim your power
It’s easy to feel powerless when you’re diagnosed with an incurable and invisible condition like Hydrocephalus. And, having to learn to navigate life with a brain injury. When life changes within the blink of an eye and your circumstances are unrecognisable. When the person staring back at you in...