It’s no secret, money makes this world go round. (Some may suggest other things do but…). This week, I’ve been reminded again just how expensive, inconvenient and burdensome this condition is in my life. At my last visit, the Neurosurgeon told me to see an Ophthalmologist and also to...
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Hydrocephalus: I’m not scared to face all this on my own.
There are days when I wish I couldn’t read people. The unspoken can sometimes be so loud. • A reaction to something said. • The change of tone in your voice. • The way your face changes: mouth, eyes, brows… • A shift in your posture and demeanour. •...
Hydrocephalus: The waiting game and getting in the way of life!
Hydrocephalus doesn’t ask you if or when it can interrupt your life, it simply does. No matter whether you fail your last year of school because you were symptomatic around exam time and your brain took such a beating that nothing would stick. Or you have your baby brother’s...
Hydrocephalus: Would they even know what to do?
Do the people in your life, those closest to you, know what to do if you need help? How knowledgeable are they when it comes to Hydrocephalus and you? Honestly, I have the utmost respect for parents who fight fiercely for their children with Hydrocephalus and are so in...
Hydrocephalus: Unfair question or not?
“What do you want them to do?” A question I’ve been asked by some well-meaning individuals in my life, and in general, when I’ve been at my lowest point of not having my symptoms treated. (They don’t have Hydrocephalus). Truth be told, there’s a physical reaction I have to...
Hydrocephalus: Be kind and take care of yourself first!
I never truly understood this saying. In fact, I suck at taking care of myself. This I know… It’s weird, I almost feel like I’m being selfish when I don’t respond to someone else’s request for help i.e. I can’t say NO. But, knowing myself, I can say with...
Hydrocephalus: The abusive relationship
With my last post about Hydrocephalus being the 3rd party in your marriage, this one seems quite apt to follow. This condition does not play fair. It robs you of so much: time, relationships, money, memory, sanity…so much. But it’s a union where you don’t get to call it...
Hydrocephalus: The 3rd party in your marriage
For better or worse…in sickness and in health…till death do us part… When Hydrocephalus made itself known and stepped into my life, nothing could have prepared me for the road that lay ahead. Age 29, married, 2 kids and in the prime of my career…I would never have thought...
Hydrocephalus…It’s not OK!
A diagnosis of Hydrocephalus, caused through no fault of my own, is something I can live with. I’ve had to learn so much in order to cope and, more importantly, accept this new way of life. It’s a constant learning curve! I don’t exactly have a choice. None of...
Hydrocephalus: Are doctors biased?
A hydro warrior asked me this week: “If you’ve ever gone for a second opinion, have you ever felt the second opinion judging you because of previous treatment you’ve received?” I had to smile at this question because not only have I sought a second opinion but I’ve lost...