Hydrocephalus does NOT discriminate. There’s no single cause and more people are diagnosed with it, than you, or I, could ever know. Globally! It really is a silent assassin. One you can’t see coming. Awareness and education provide the best armour. Saying; “It won’t happen to me”, is no guarantee. Thanks to having viral meningitis,…
Finding the balance, living life with hydrocephalus and brain injury, is tricky. Relationships take strain and fall apart. The loss of some relationships has been sad for me. But I’m realizing that this is inevitable unless the required effort is made by all parties. Truthfully, some have been easier to let go of than others…Maintenance…
I have worked in IT for more than 20 years of my life. After starting my career as a secretary, I soon moved into IT and learnt as much as I could, on the job. It was a field I felt drawn to. Over the years, I have successfully completed quite a few formal training…
My brain can literally feel like a hornets nest (most of the time). A muddled space where thoughts, memories and information, go to die (a slow death). One coping strategy, that works (for me), is to reduce my cognitive load. I’ve had to learn a few and continue to do so, as I figure it…
It’s not always the same fight but regardless, I’m tired. To quote a fellow Hydro sister: “I know I am here for God’s purpose and He knows my days here yet, I am tired of having to force my physical body to do what my spirit wants to do.” It’s ironic how much I can…
Last week I binge watched Lenox Hill, a documentary, currently playing on Netflix. Not everyone has the stomach for watching brain surgery or women giving birth. So, if you’re squeamish, don’t watch it. Me on the other hand, I find it interesting…brain surgery, that is. For some reason, I want to know what happens after…
A hydro warrior asked me this week: “If you’ve ever gone for a second opinion, have you ever felt the second opinion judging you because of previous treatment you’ve received?” I had to smile at this question because not only have I sought a second opinion but I’ve lost count as to the number of…
Just because I’ve had brain surgery does NOT mean I’m cured. There is NO cure – that’s the reality of the condition. If I have to face it then…it shouldn’t be too hard for you. And, just because I’ve accepted my reality, doesn’t mean I’m being negative. If anything, I’m being realistic in my approach. Not…
A child dying will grab anyone’s attention, no matter the circumstances. It’s not to say that adults are less important but there’s just a definitive difference. In the Hydro community I know it affects each and every one of us, without a doubt. I find that it affects me (personally) in more ways than one. …
