If life has taught me anything, and more specifically Hydrocephalus, it’s that you simply cannot give up. You can get tired of the fight, yes (repeatedly!). You can take a break, for however long you choose. Ok, realistically…for as long as Hydrocephalus gives you a pass…but I think you...
Articles with the Tag Acceptance
Life without Hydrocephalus
Many of us who have this condition have been born with it and therefore don’t have any idea what it’s like to live without it. Also, you can’t miss something you never knew. I posted this on Valentine’s Day and have had a few people ask: “What’s it like...
What would you do?
O for “Oh no!”, “Onward and upward”, “Over it!”? Whatever it is, that’s where I’m at. Moving on should get easier, especially after consulting with so many specialists but… It’s as trying now as it was when I first started out! 3 countries later and I appear to either...
The devil is in the detail
Have you ever had a consult with a specialist for Hydrocephalus and walked away feeling like they simply didn’t listen? Or, maybe you read their report after your consult, and think: “Thats not what I said!”, feeling deflated by the same token. If you have, you are not alone!...
Looking after your mental health
Mental health challenges, are nothing to scoff at. I do believe that most people experience something (or even a few) that adversely them, at one point or another. I’m not ashamed to say I have my fair share of ups and downs. It’s never easy to deal with and,...
Hydrocephalus : More than just a dream…
Some time ago, I asked the question “Will there ever be a cure?” The general consensus was “Highly unlikely…”, not something anyone wants to hear (I for one, don’t). But, being a realist, I could see why this response had a common trend. In short, there are too many...
Hydrocephalus : The effects run deeper than just physical pain…
It’s been 9 years since I last had brain surgery, excluding the ICP monitoring I had a few months back. I feel fortunate, for lack of a better word, compared to others who endure more harrowing times. The moments in-between where I questioned and wondered if what I was...
Hydrocephalus: When your family relies on you for…(just about) everything
I have no doubt there are many of us, who are relied upon by our families, to be the one who holds it all together. I especially know this is highly likely if you weren’t born with Hydrocephalus (though not limited to) but, diagnosed later in life, like me. ...
Hydrocephalus: What is the right frame of mind?
This question pertains just as much to someone who has recently been diagnosed with Hydrocephalus as it does to someone facing brain surgery, which is never easy. For me personally, it doesn’t matter that people say one procedure is “not as bad” as the next, it doesn’t stop me...
The “protocol” ED is missing when it comes to Hydrocephalus
Just an update, since my last post, with me ending up at the ED, despite my internal protests and reservations that nothing would be done…(I always give a situation the benefit of the doubt). But alas… There were a few things that stood out for me this weekend: Calling to...